MESSAGE FROM OBI BEN
Founder; Fervent Christian Gathering

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To the young female teens / youths.

Dear teens/Youths, this is a time of tremendous energy and strength. This is the time where all the virtues embedded in you ought to be made Manifest. This is a time of laying a good foundation to enable you have a smooth and easy ride in the later days, when Family life and commitment won’t allow you much time to do the things you “OUGHT” to be doing now.
Forget boys and relax , infact wear Pampers for now
Listen,let me tell you something
Men are explorers
The natural man, on sighting a female curves and other juicy parts of her body, he begins to explore her in his mind
His mind travels fast in creating mental pictures of how rough he could ride on you assuming you were naked on bed.
At that moment,the natural man step up his libido (sexual urge) by a continuous exploration of the female body to enable him satisfy his vain and carnal cravings.
These carnal imaginations are the motivation behind the continuous chastening of a teenage girl by a growing young man. They now sugar coat this vain craving as “TOASTING”

now you understand that the source of their strength isn’t love . because “love is a compassion of peace , without any carnal emotional attachment
strictly guided under the Principle of Godliness”

Hold on and follow me.

This explains why they keep chasing you at a tender age ,when they know you have no value to give . Sex is not a value.
sex is a responsibility in marriage.
don’t say you want to start dating at 15,16,17 so that you can marry the person at 20,21,22
listen dear teens, as you grow and add value to yourself,your taste will change, if you doubt me, ask your elders.
You are thinking of marriage so soon?
marriage is a journey of no return, those who stubbornly return from this journey are tagged as “DIVORCEES ” and this sounds derogatory and absurd.
secondly ,Marriage is an institution where value is given and received.
Now is the time to build capacity and add value.
because you can’t give out what you don’t have .
below are some important values
√Get a college degree (if you can)
√Acquire a trade or skill
√learn how to Pen down a job winning CV/application letter
√work on your communication skills
√learn how to drive a car
√make quality friends
The absence of all these is the presence of a person who has no value to offer. When you build capacity, a man becomes a bonus.
Now is the time to discover yourself, your purpose of existence and the reason why you were created ( 3 IN 1)
This is not the time to keep with the modern trend and fashion spec of the day
Soon you will look back at your youth and either feel proud or embarrassed.